Making Friends for life !!!
Or rather start with " How hard is it to make New Friends".
I had few really good friends when i was in school .Then i got another set of friends when i went to college without knowing that the ones i had in school would move out ..not just from town but also from my friend's zone slowly and steadily. Then came the phase when i was baby stepping into the corporate world......new people, new location, new freedom....but what about my old friends, old life, old chemistry between friends ?
Now i am mother of 2 , trying to make new friends again....
Someone told me some really nice tips for that :
1. Join kitties around you ( note : kittieS ) ( but somehow this is not my cup of tea)
2. Join whatsapp groups of your kid's class's mothers.
3. Try joining activity classes.
4. Go to pick and drop your child to school (this is a proven sure shot way to meet all the mothers who do the same )
5. Enroll your kid to 101 after school activities (offcourse it means that you would go to pick and drop them ) .
Oh and yes, if you can afford time, sit with other mothers during the activity
6.Go to temple around your place once in a week ( have you not heard of temple friends yet ☺ )
7.Park Friends: Ladies that take their kids to parks every evening tend to make friends.
Haha , if i go by all these rules i am sure i would become one of the busiest mom who has loads and loads of friends.
PS :Now that the slot of my best friend is permanently occupied [❤❤], plz apply for other positions ☺
Hey readers plz let us know how you all are making friends these days and what works for
you most of the times .
Loved reading it .
ReplyDeleteThanks dear.
DeleteHaha...Out of the options you gave ..Park friends is the one which I had experience ..As it's not just the kids rather you also spending time with friends if at all kids allow you ;) but yes can't promise to get the best lot there though..Your luck ;)
ReplyDeletePark Friends are usually the once that come and go with age and time...but these memories last for ever :)
DeleteWell said Ramlal�� I paused for a while...looked back nd believes what... that's so true! It recalls me all sweet memories of my School/college time. Over past few years...I am making new relations but seriously no friends. Not sure, if that's good but somewhere I am able to relate to this
ReplyDeleteI know !!Those were the days yaar, no tensions...no worries ...only friends and studies, these were the only 2 things we cared about.:)
Deletegood one. something to ponder
ReplyDeleteVery nice blog..but the points you gave does not make friends..it just makes a social group.I think school friends are best if living in the same city..
ReplyDeleteAs you grow your choice for friends changes. But some are close to your heart forever.
ReplyDeleteAfter a long time Nidhi.. gud one though.. loved reading it!!
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